This is WHY we have lost our way

0:00 if you've been feeling unsettled lately if you're watching the world and thinking what is happening to us you are not alone you see we are in a collective Reckoning this Reckoning isn't just political or social my friends it is deeply personal it is a Reckoning with the one force that has ruled our Humanity it is the force of the ego you have one I have one and guess what most of us were trained to build our ego how

0:31 because when we were young who we truly were was simply Never Enough we were never seen clearly for who we were we were never accepted fully we were too sensitive too wild too slow too loud too little too too much we were shamed for our needs for our feelings for vulnerability punished for our emotions rewarded only when servile and in obedience so we quickly learned to adapt we began to build a self that would buy us that love and value valtion we began

1:00 to wear masks that would win the love we craved somewhere along the way we forgot our authentic self this is how the ego is born not as arrogance not as Pride but as a survival strategy it is a desperate attempt to matter in a world that doesn't see you that only rewards achievement and Punishment you see this ego believes that worth comes from powering over others it measures value in how much you do and achieve and own

1:31 this is the tragedy of this ego and it is now the ego that rules our world these are the men and women in positions of power or the lovers we attract or the parents we are or the parents we had you see all of us were once children who were never allowed to be vulnerable we were told stop crying be strong don't be soft don't be weak so we all hardened you see we never learned how to truly

1:58 feel so now we don't feel we don't feel not only our own pain we don't feel the others pain they don't feel your pain you see they've covered it up with bravado and success and dominance and charm and control it's a glossy veneer on top of a gaping wound and what happens when a person cannot feel they become capable of Cruelty not because they are evil but because they are numb you see they dehumanize themselves so

2:26 they dehumanize others this is the tragedy of the ego it doesn't just protect us from Pain it isolates us from our Humanity now here's the most important part we were all raised in this illusion we've all inherited to some degree or the other these systems of Oppression and if we're not careful we will pass it on unless we wake up and here's something that people find even harder to face you see the reason we

2:58 keep attracting these kinds of leaders these kinds of lovers perhaps is because somewhere deep inside we believe that this is what true power looks like we believe that power is loud and controlling and dominating and unshakable because this is what we were raised with you see most of us were raised by parents who equated love with control and respect with fear so we mistake control for care we confuse manipulation with safety and we allow people into our Lives who resemble our

3:29 earlier caretakers even if it is painful it feels familiar it feels safe in a Twisted way so how do we begin to unravel this mess how do we begin to heal well first we need to wake up to the truth we need to stop Ling our unconscious roles in these systems of Oppression that we need to dismantle we need to stop blaming and we need to look within because the real Rebellion starts in here it's in how we speak to

3:57 ourselves it's in how we speak to our children when they make mistakes it's whether we parent from fear or from awareness it's whether we seek to control another or connect you see if you want to be part of raising Generations that don't follow corrupt leaders or lovers then we need to raise our children differently we need to teach our children that true power is not something they take but it is something they share we need to raise

4:24 our children to know who it is they are so they don't feel the need to take take from others to acquire an amass at all costs we don't need more obedience in this world we need more authenticity we don't need more rules we need more emotional fluency we don't need more punishment we need more community and connection so the next time fear rises in you whether it's about the world or yourself or your child you need to pause

4:53 you need to breathe you need to reconnect here and ask am I acting out of love or fear am I trying to control or am I trying to connect am I trying to be superior because I'm afraid to be vulnerable this compassion over fear will rule the world will change the world and this is why I teach conscious parenting because this work doesn't just start in politics or in schools it begins with us this is not just a

5:21 parenting philosophy it is a movement it is a blueprint for creating a new world a world where children no longer have to Abend themselves and betray themselves just to feel worthy where they don't have to dominate over others where they don't have to tyrannize others in order to feel powerful so join me help me help others break the cycle through this movement of conscious parenting because when we raise our children with Consciousness we don't just change that

5:51 child's life we don't just change our own life we literally change the trajectory of humanity itself this is is how powerful conscious parenting is so will you join me I have a conscious coaching and Life program where I coach people to become conscious parent and life coaches where we can spread this movement globally if you're interested in becoming one of my coaches and truly helping families change one child at a time type the word coach below and I

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