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Approaching tough career conversations as a manager

Shreyas Doshi · 3m · transcribed 9h ago
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# 0:00

Setting Expectations for Promotions

How can managers effectively communicate promotion outcomes?

Managers should set expectations upfront to minimize disappointment when discussing promotions or performance ratings. Offering dedicated career chats can help facilitate these conversations.

  • Setting expectations early can reduce the emotional impact of disappointing news.
  • Monthly career chats provide a safe space for employees to discuss their career paths.
  • Creating a non-judgmental environment encourages open dialogue about career progression.
# 0:45

Encouraging Open Career Conversations

How can managers encourage high performers to discuss their career goals?

Managers should offer optional career chats that allow employees to discuss their career aspirations without the pressure to perform, helping to foster deeper mentorship.

  • High performers may avoid discussing career issues due to a focus on project success.
  • Optional career chats can help employees feel more comfortable discussing their career paths.
  • Guided agendas in these chats can lead to more productive discussions.
# 1:30

Clarifying Career Paths

What should managers do to clarify promotion paths for employees?

Managers need to clearly outline the steps and expectations for promotions during career conversations, ensuring employees understand what is required for advancement.

  • Clear communication about promotion criteria helps manage employee expectations.
  • Regular career discussions can keep employees informed about their progress.
  • Setting clear goals can motivate employees to work towards their next promotion.
# 2:15

Owning Tough Conversations

How should managers handle difficult conversations about promotions?

Managers must take ownership of promotion decisions, providing objective feedback and avoiding blame on external factors. They should communicate specific gaps in performance that affected the decision.

  • Owning the conversation builds trust and credibility with employees.
  • Providing concrete reasons for promotion decisions helps employees understand areas for improvement.
  • Avoiding blame on external factors fosters a culture of accountability.
# 3:00

Building Credibility as a Manager

How can managers increase their effectiveness in advocating for promotions?

Managers can enhance their credibility within the organization, which in turn increases their ability to advocate for their team's promotions effectively.

  • Credibility within the organization can significantly impact a manager's advocacy for their team.
  • Building relationships and demonstrating competence can enhance a manager's influence.
  • Effective advocacy requires both credibility and a clear understanding of promotion criteria.

Transcript

0:06 I've had to have many tough conversations with people telling them they did not get promoted telling them they got a lower rating than they were expecting and it's tough it was very stressful for me it always has been very stressful for me here's the thing I guess one thing I have found useful is that I have been able to for the most part set the expectation up front so there isn't a surprise or the surprise isn't heartbreaking one of the

0:31 management tactics I've used is in addition to one-on-ones I want to offer you the option of setting up monthly career chats and these will be one-on-ones but they're not like our other one-on-ones and you can bring up career stuff in our other one-on-ones as well but I have noticed that the highest performers don't bring up those issues because they're always like they want to show this like they're making progress their go-getters Etc so they only talk

0:54 about projects if they talk about career it's only about the logistics and like when's the next promo cycle blah blah blah and so I want to offer are you the option it is not a requirement I want to offer you the option of doing monthly career chats with me there can be one hour they can be 90 minutes and they can happen on your schedule and it's your agenda and I will help guide that agenda and effectively it was a way for me to

1:15 like give people deep coaching and deep mentorship but at their option and in a way that they didn't feel like they had to perform in that conversation because oftentimes people feel like they just need to perform to their manager so I wanted to let that guard down and and in the career conversation even if we start with the pleasantries hello how are you how are things going even if they brought up any kind of like you know oh

1:34 this project this like I'm like no we're not talking about this in this conversation if you want to talk about this let's set aside 30 minutes afterwards in the day but in the career conversation all we talk about is career the ones that did take it you know and had that monthly chat with me they knew what is going to happen they knew exactly the journey to get to the next level and the next level after that like

1:57 even if I told them okay we can apply for your promotion in all cases I would let people on my team know that like look I I think this is a tough one I will advocate for you but this may not happen so setting that expectation up front helps a lot so that's one aspect now let's say you know one hasn't done that and like you still need to have the tough conversation a lot of the standard

2:17 stuff applies right like you need to earn the decision you cannot blame the promo committee you cannot blame the company you cannot say oh this person in the promo committee was an and like you know got in the way a lot of managers by the way do this right like and it's just wrong because you're not doing anybody any favors you're just feeling good about yourself you're trying to make the other person feel like you're a good manager but that's

2:35 not your role and so you need to own the decision and you need to share it objectively and the way I typically do it is like when this happens I also clarify to them the concrete gaps so not the of like well you need to have created a road map and the committee did not see evidence of having created a roadmap so that's why you didn't get promoted remember the antithesis principle even if you've been subject to it make sure you don't

2:57 subject your people to this right and so so like I would give them concrete reasons another thing I think in my case that helped me pretty much every situation I was in I had a massive amounts of credibility within the organization right so like I would say like I had some Tailwinds which is it was easier for me to advocate for people that I thought deserved a promotion and to have a higher success rate when advocating then for many or most of my

3:23 peers right so so that also made things like better for me as a manager by the way the lesson there is not like oh look at me I'm so great I'm just saying you can do the same right like figure out how you can get greater credibility within the organization easier said than done but it can be done because if you do that your Effectiveness will increase in you know helping people get promoted oh

Summary

The speaker discusses the challenges of delivering difficult feedback regarding promotions and performance ratings, emphasizing the importance of setting expectations upfront to mitigate disappointment. They advocate for regular, optional career conversations that focus solely on career development, allowing employees to feel less pressured and more open to discussing their growth.

- Tough conversations about promotions are inherently stressful for managers.
- Setting clear expectations upfront can reduce the impact of disappointing news.
- Offering optional monthly career chats allows for focused discussions on career development without the pressure of performance metrics.
- High performers often avoid discussing career advancement, preferring to focus on project progress.
- Managers should own the decision-making process and provide objective, concrete feedback on performance gaps.
- Building credibility within the organization enhances a manager's ability to advocate for their team members' promotions.
- Avoid blaming external factors, such as the promotion committee, when delivering feedback.
- Managers should ensure that their own experiences do not negatively impact their team's opportunities for growth.

Questions Answered

How can managers effectively communicate promotion outcomes?

Managers should set expectations upfront to minimize disappointment when discussing promotions or performance ratings. Offering dedicated career chats can help facilitate these conversations.

How can managers encourage high performers to discuss their career goals?

Managers should offer optional career chats that allow employees to discuss their career aspirations without the pressure to perform, helping to foster deeper mentorship.

What should managers do to clarify promotion paths for employees?

Managers need to clearly outline the steps and expectations for promotions during career conversations, ensuring employees understand what is required for advancement.

How should managers handle difficult conversations about promotions?

Managers must take ownership of promotion decisions, providing objective feedback and avoiding blame on external factors. They should communicate specific gaps in performance that affected the decision.

How can managers increase their effectiveness in advocating for promotions?

Managers can enhance their credibility within the organization, which in turn increases their ability to advocate for their team's promotions effectively.

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