Day 50 Viral Wisdom: What it means to have an awakened heart?

0:00 hello everyone how are you Here I am with Viral wisdom number 50 so excited to be here with you so as you sign in tell me where you're from tell me how you are tell me what you're feeling I'd love to get a pulse on on your inner life so check-in tell me where you're from and how you're feeling I would love to know it's viral wisdom

0:35 day number 50 so as I said yesterday if you heard number 49 I did announce that when I reached number 52 I will be no longer doing it every day but I will be doing it once a week on Sundays at 1:00 p.m. Eastern so I will be continuing but it will look a little different so hi everyone yes day number 50 and this is the viral wisdom I

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3:11 for a lifetime ok so today I have a lot to talk about so let's get to it so you know that I've been talking about how racism for example is an attachment to a delusional belief system and some day about something beautiful on my Facebook page so I'm gonna read that to you and have a discussion about that to understand more how we in our own psyches adopt we in our own psyches

3:43 adopt a superior position only because we are losing control we adopt a veneer and ego of power and control not unlike our President of the United States only because really inside we are cowards but bullies are really cowards inside because they're terrified of losing control so whenever you see someone trying to control you instead of feeling that they are they are winning and that they are controlling you you need to

4:15 understand this person is really really mentally deficit this person is really weak inside this person is really lacking inside this is what you need to understand when somebody is trying to overpower you with power or trying to raise their voice trying to bully you trying to berate you trying to degrade you the only reason people do that on the outside is because they are very

4:46 weak on the inside if you can't understand that you will get bullied by the outside person if you allow yourself to believe that the other person on the outside is meant to control you is meant to overpower you because of your own inner wounds you will allow them to win you will allow them to to dominate to degrade you this is why I talk about

5:19 inner healing if we are not healed from the inside then our holes hol ESS will be filled by other people's contamination when we are whole and complete on the inside people from the outside cannot penetrate us so this is why inner healing is so essential if we are not healed on the inside we will be

5:49 intimidated by the outer bully it's only when we understand that the bully on the outside is a bully because they are actually so mentally in putrescence on the inside so contaminated on the inside and when we can see them for that we can get power instead of giving away our power so I want to read you what this person wrote I thought it was beautiful

6:20 and he his name is frats k and I'm just gonna read out your words bad skin so I'm so sorry but I told you on Facebook that I'm gonna do it so he wrote it so beautifully he wrote I've been thinking about this for a while now while going through my own process of and emotional healing now actually I don't even know if it's a man or a woman I'm sorry flat ski I don't know what

6:42 gender you are it doesn't matter so this person brought rights people who have reached a true healing point in their mental emotional health journey learn that one is able to practice the ability to not take things personally they learn the ability to not be offended by something rooted in the other person's insecurities they learn that the insecurities lie in the other person not in them hateful actions are reaction to it triggered insecurities within oneself so anytime you know I'm regressing anytime

7:14 you are around people who are depleting you people who you feel controlled by people who you feel are putting you down and you're feeling lesser than with it's not you you are allowing it because you have your own inner wounds but it's their insecurities that are making them do that it's really important to understand this in order for you to heal if you don't understand this you will keep giving your power away to other people and there are plenty of people

7:44 out there who will ravenously parasitically devour you take away your power you know people are our energy zappers they are energy vampires out there they are power hungry people because they in their own life did not have power when they were growing up so they they became faulty and messed up in their mind and now the only way they can get power is to snatch your power but I care about you about how you can be

8:16 strong I don't care about stopping them the way to stop them is to become strong from here and to gather the troops to become solidified solidarity is the antidote you cannot change President Trump he's irrecoverable you the only way to change is to rise up on the side of the antidote how can we rise up enough so that we rise strong to be the light in face of the dark right so to speak one feels threatened

8:49 threatened and acts out in defense of themselves it is the inner child calling for help if one is able to make peace with themselves and they pass then there is no need to act out in anger and hurt I'm shifting his words and putting my own words into trauma especially that which occurs at a young developmental age takes deep rooted people and causes them to act in inhumane ways addressing this is the important thing so what this

9:17 says and what I want to elaborate on today is that everything is coming from deep inner wounding when we are wounded from the inside when we are contaminated from the inside then the only thing that can come outside is vomit is control is degradation shame so when you hear somebody shaming you from the outside instead of taking it in you need to understand wow they are so mentally ill

9:51 they're so filled with their own inner inferiority with their own inner insecurity that they are so messed up I cannot take it in I cannot take it in to me and this is why we need to heal from the inside because as long as we have holes as long as we are porous on the inside then their crap will come straight into us and we will in mesh with their crap this is why we need to

10:20 be airtight on the inside so that we can deflect the outer external toxicity right it all comes from the outside if we allow it so how do we not allow it is by healing from the inside by becoming airtight on the inside our holes on the inside need to heal and the way to do that is through this inner work listen this is what all my courses especially the ones I've been talking about the

10:51 awakened heart is about becoming strong and powerful on the inside when we become strong and powerful on the inside we learn to accept our cell as we are self-acceptance really it sounds so cliched it sounds so trivial self-exam except yourself okay but let me tell you it is the radical step toward healing what are we expect accepting of ourselves what are we self accepting let

11:23 me tell you we're accepting who it is we are what does that mean we're understanding ourselves as a deep intricate set of patterns that have bought us to the present moment so when I help people do inner work what I'm really helping them to do is see themselves as an intricate pattern of cause and effect cause and effect cause and effect from childhood right so the racist did not just become a racist the racist

11:54 has been wearing the cloak of racism for generations so much so it was in the in the serial that they ate as children in the milk that they suckled from their mother's breasts racism is institutionalized it is generational it is ancestral that is why it is so hard to catch so hard for the racist person to even see that they're racist they're like I'm not racist this

12:25 is the pillar in my mind I don't even know how to remove it it's in the mind right so is all isms sexism ageism all the delusions we live with are in our blood from childhood in the milk we drank in the in the songs our mother sang to us they come from generations and that's why it is so scary when you begin to wake up to realize that this has been going on in my family for

12:55 generations this is why doing the inner work is so important because you're breaking patterns and you have to ask yourself am i a pattern disrupter am I does the buck stop here I know in my family in terms of female lineage and gender lineage of what it means to be woman hundred percent I have broken the pattern I may have messed it up and made a new effed up pattern no problem but did I break the old pattern hundred

13:27 percent I have broken the pattern from my daughter after generations of women have put legacies on the next generation on our daughters and have burdened us I was burdened by generations and legacies of ancestral baggage and for sure I stopped that pattern did I create a new one maybe worse than before maybe but did I stop the old 100% and each one of us when we wake up to our

13:57 power to our power and we heal ourselves we become pattern disruptors we change the pattern we say you know let there be a new after pattern in town but this old one the zombified unconscious one that we are just mindlessly reacting to that's got to stop that's got to stop with me the buck stops here and there will be pain in my life because any pattern change requires tremendous courage requires such

14:28 audacity do you know how audacious you have to be to change a pattern oh my goodness you have to be bold you have to be brave you have to be daring and you have to kind of not give it them and these people you you have it in you can break a pattern you can be the pattern disruptor in your own life but how by going within and healing your past seeing yourself as cause and effect

14:59 cause and effect cause and effect cause and effect and as you see that then you accept yourself you go you know what yeah I was erased this person for twenty nine point two years of my life and now I'm twenty nine point three let me break the pattern you know I was unhealthy in my eating patterns and I was an addict for four 60.1 years of my life you know what now it's 60 point two point two

15:24 five I'm going to do it I'm gonna break the pattern now all our pattern have been in some way or the other inherited from ancestral lineage from ancestral legacies they didn't just come to be you didn't just come to be the fool that you are and the fool that I am no we will take responsibility by seeing that there is a huge line of cause and effect and this unconsciousness has been

15:55 coming down the pike for ever and I will take responsibility for how it is in the now but boy it's been there for it forever for eons from mother to father grandmother to granddaughter it's been going on forever and now I will take my power and say I will change the patterns today the racist pattern the ages pattern the sexist pattern the whatever the ism is we have the power to change it now but only when we look in the

16:28 mirror and see it for what it is worth that it's been there forever and now I have to reverse the tide I have to change the flow do you know you can do that you are a pattern disruptor but it takes inner work it takes going back it takes admitting our blind spots it takes looking at our shadow understanding okay why did I act like this why am I feeling this why am I in this amount of pain why am i trying to

16:57 control the situation understanding how your wounds from childhood have created a false persona call the ego and the ego is very primitive but the ego is like I don't know what to do there's no adult in town can some adult please come and fire me because I'm just destroying my life I'm destroying you and my work helps you activate your adult self so

17:29 you can tame your ego and heal yourself this is what it means to do in a work is to understand the many faces of your ego of which racism is one face and how to heal and the way the racist person for example needs to hear that but it's their responsibility we can't do it for them is that they need to go within and go Wow my inner child is really wounded it's destroyed I have created this persona of

18:00 you know with my rifles and with my tattoos and with my Ku Klux Klan mentality to hide that actually on the inside I am so powerless I am so afraid of black strength this is why I act like this because I'm actually so scared that they are superior in a way I'm scared of their dominance why else are we acting like this for eons against black people obviously were threatened otherwise we wouldn't act like this when we're not

18:31 threatened we're not threatened we don't act like crazy people we act like crazy people when we're threatened but then the question to ask is what are we threatened off and we're always threatened in all situations with our children with our partners of the other person's rise and dominance we're scared if they rise then what they the black man you know who has a bigger everything oh the white man feels oh he's bigger everything makes me feel

18:59 very inferior I'm sorry so what will I do if he comes and takes all my women it's primitive it's subliminal it's deep deep deep deep deep down but no one can own it because it's true - threatening - threatening to say I'm scared so instead of saying I'm scared I act all-powerful and I get on my macho machismo out there but it's so apparent it's so apparent that you're scared you're terrified why don't we just say

19:26 we're terrified why can't white racist people just say you know sorry I'm acting reasons I'm really scared I'm actually a little boy inside now no one will ever do that because that's not our culture our culture is not to be honest our culture's to be dishonest and to act but forget that let's talk about how we can hear yes so how can you hear in your personal life is to look at your power-tripping to look at how your ego

19:52 covers up for your truth it's so hard to be an authentic true it's so hard to be in our power and say you know what I'm scared right now you know what I don't know right now you know what I'm really feeling vulnerable and helpless we don't talk like that so we cover it up we wear a mask of ego and dominance to create superiority because ego ego wants to be in control but let me tell

20:20 you the more people want to be in control the less they are in control right as the dow so beautifully talks about all the time the daodejing only talks about how to give up control how the true leader understands that there is no one to lead right in verse three the master leads he helps people lose everything and he leads by helping people lose everything he helps them by helping them empty their mind and

20:51 filling their corns right I'm reading verses from the Dow where they talk about how the true master understands that the true power is never in control the true power is always releasing control this is the only way the Masters know how to live right and I'm gonna look for some verses over here verse number 17 from the dow when the master governs the master meaning the master of the mind yes the wise master when the

21:22 master governs the people are hardly aware he exists next best is a leader who is loved next is one who is feared the worst is one who is despised if you don't trust the people the master realizes then you make them untrustworthy the master doesn't talk he acts when his work is done the people say amazing we did it all by ourselves the master makes

21:52 you feel that you've done it because the master doesn't need the accolade the master doesn't need the praise the master just wants the people to feel powerful so anytime anyone on the outside is taking power including me if you see me taking power fire me right because the minute I'm taking power it means that I need it and if I need it it means I didn't have it and you don't want to be around someone who doesn't have their own inner

22:24 power when you have inner power you never want it from the other person it's just they go in tandem so anybody out there in your life in your personal life or in government or in your in the policeman and the police women you work with if you see them entering control degradation shaming tyranny you have to understand that it is a direct reflection of their lack of power and

22:56 instead of falling into it instead of giving into it and say oh okay overpower me I'm powerless you have to do the opposite and understand that they are powerless and that you have power it is so reflective of your inner state of groundedness right how much power do you realize you really have inside and where does your power come from does it come from your shoes does it come from your face does it come from your body does it

23:25 come from your husband does it come from your wife or does it come from you and this is what I try to teach especially parents don't get your power from your children your children are not there to make you feel powerful your children are not there to make you feel good about yourself your children are there to allow themselves to enter into their own power so all these racist people out there anyone in your life who has put you down

23:54 and you've believed it you have to now realize oh I didn't realize that they have no power they're actually little children screaming for help and attention they're little toddlers having a tantrum with guns yes old old men who are actually toddlers of very dangerous old white men who think they have power with their rifle but they're actually toddlers which they really are dangerous men indeed and we need to

24:25 understand when you give a toddler a gun and you tell him to shoot he is somebody you have to be scared of so yes our black mothers need to be scared for their black sons this is a dangerous world with toddlers holding up machine guns that's what it is we live in a world with toddlers holding machine guns any tyrant in your life is a toddler with a machine gun many husbands I just had a session with a woman with a

24:55 narcissistic husband who was scared to leave him because he was going to threaten her to take her to court and call her crazy and yes this is unfortunately a world mostly predominated with a culture of narcissism I'm not saying people are narcissistic the culture is narcissistic and many of the men who have been raised to condition to be conditioned to be like that mindset are ruling our world

25:25 today and we who are not narcissistic not of that mindset the impacts of this world the feeling people of this world the people who have been awakened hard both men and women are suffering at the hands of this why to fight narcissistic patriarchal world we live in so I care about you now you on an individual level if you see it out there in the institution's and it's out there it's out there in the religious

25:55 institutions it's out there in the Vatican I'm sorry to say sorry to say it's out there in the Vatican where there's power tripping and tyranny going on you can't you can't shut your eyes you're not being lesser a Christian or a Catholic if you also open your eyes it's okay you're still a staunch Catholic and a staunch Muslim and a staunch Hindu it's okay but you can have eyes open you can see the the dysfunction for the

26:22 dysfunction no harm so this this kind of narcissism and patriarchy exists everywhere the religious institution the educational institution the police instant this institution the institution of law and governance it exists there it exists in our courthouses it exists in our marriages and until we understand that it's the mother the mother ship is why to fight narcissistic patriarchy which is capitalistic okay why defy

26:54 narcissistic capitalistic patriarchy every day I add a new world the first time it was only patriarchy then I said why to fight patriarchy then I said why to fight capitalistic patriarchy today I'm adding a new word narcissistic it's all connected it's just a new and new adjective to give it nuance to give it extra colour and texture it's all the same if you understood what a why to fight patriarchy's you would understand its capitalistic separatist narcissistic dominating tyrannical right

27:22 I just highlight a different word it's all in there when the mother is that the children are that you and I suffer from that in our own way either we are the empath suffering against it or we are that in our own world if we can't escape it I'm speaking the truth as a parent I can't escape it I want to be patriotic oh I want to be hierarchical I want to have to a nickel control over my

27:47 children when I'm out there and the old me the unconscious me and the unconscious you goes out there and we want to compete because we see the other as us versus them we see the other as an enemy you and I are children of a patriarchal hierarchical culture we have it in us why do we want to compete fine because we've been conditioned to compete but it's toxic the true way to survive the true way is not to compete

28:18 it is to cooperate to come together as one but you and I we have it in our blood we want our children to it my child should win why your child is lesser than your child doesn't deserve to win why is my child so special my child is not special only unique never special but when we have this mentality of me versus you it's narcissistic its capitalistic its separatist so I'm trying to show you when the mother is

28:45 that the children will be so how do we heal we heal the child in us when we heal the child in us and we let go of our own narcissism our own capitalism our own separatism our own racism we all have it to a degree inside us it's it not it cannot be out you're not a bad person for having it you're just condition if you grew up in a culture which is off a certain way you

29:11 are going to be influenced you know I used to watch hindi movies growing up please once in your life watch a hindi movie I haven't watched one for now 25 years when I was young I grew up on Hindi movies movies have acculturated me ask most Indian women they were raised by in the movies they learned how to be a good woman from the Hindi movies ask all Indian women who grew up in India they want to be the indie heroine from

29:39 the Hindi movies totally deluded totally messed up right we learned how to be good women from movies what I'm trying to show you is that culture is insidious you are not a bad person for having been acculturated with these ideals you're not a bad person for thinking you are wrong and lesser than you have been acculturated to think that way by the bullying culture so until we wake up and until we open our eyes and stop feeling

30:11 afraid to look at the isms of our life to look at the belief systems we have all indoctrinated we will stay trapped we will scale victims to the patriarchy we will save victims to the bullies in our lives we will save victims to each other women will save victims to other women only when we heal and become solid on the inside then we will see beauty on

30:43 the outside and when we see beauty on the outside we will want to preserve it and when we want to preserve it we will want to rise together when I see women I see my mother I see my sister I do not see a competition even if she's 1 million percent better than me or skinnier than me or curvier than me whatever I adore her I see her as beautiful I wanna be her at best I

31:11 don't want to compete with her and when we get to that state we will know we have healed because we want to help everyone the fact that we live in a divided world today is because we are divided inside we are sick inside a sick with sick with sick we do not accept ourselves and because we don't accept ourselves we keep seeing threats on the outside everyone on the outside is a threat I want my try to do better than your

31:36 child no I want your child to do as well as my child that attitude comes from a healed heart from an awakened heart take my course the awakened heart really that's my course the awakened heart was my healing that I shared with the world because I realized if my heart is defiled if my heart is broken if I don't like myself how am I going to love on the outside how am I going to be there

32:03 on the outside I need to heal myself so this is what we all need to do and when you and I heal we will begin to radiate and when you and I begin to radiate now it's a domino effect so one is a million and you are the one come and join me to meditate I'm going there right now I'm already late to my other page facebook.com forward slash groups forward slash get super power come meditate with me right now ah how

32:38 do I put this off thank you for joining me everyone see you in meditation