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0:00 foreign to all my beautiful YouTube peeps it's been a while I'm so excited to be dropping in today because I have to share with you that today is day one of the dream family boot camp and some of you are not yet registered and so I had to pop by and make sure that I'm not leaving any of you behind so what is this boot camp well today is day one and today we're going to be talking all

0:28 about your dream family life and the exact obstacles that might be stopping you from getting there we're going to be talking about how your family could be and should be in my opinion The Greatest Adventure of your life the greatest project of your life but why sometimes it makes you want to scream am I right is that something that you've experienced I know that I have so I want to invite you in because what I've done

0:52 is I've created this kind of little mini retreat for us parents look I'm gonna be real with you if you're anything like me and you are parenting actively then I'm going to guess that your life is hectic right and that you hustle a lot and sometimes it's a Daily Grind maybe you spend the day waiting for bedtime every day maybe you escape to stuff your Facebook chocolate or to Doom scroll on your phone just to get

1:15 away from your real life with your kids because what can we do it's stressful and it's hard to hear whiny noises and Spills and Cheerios in our hair and sleepless nights and not to mention the worries and the anxieties about the future the the they're about judgment from other people our own guilt and shame about our low points in parenting right and so we don't really have the time or the space as it were to pause our life and

1:45 just take in the big picture of our life like take stock of what we're doing here of why we established our family in the first place what we're trying to create where are we going with all of this let me know if you sometimes feel like you're just putting out fires all day like you're just going from one problem to the next problem like you're stuck in some kind of rat race or hamster wheel right um if you feel like life is coming at

2:11 you very fast and you just flop into bed at the end of the day exhausted and not in a good way not like oh I feel so accomplished and I've got everything I want to do is done but just exhausted from running yourself ragged if you feel like you're the unpaid maid the unpaid chauffeur the unpaid housekeeper the unpaid Chef right just constantly doing housework after housework which fine okay we're all grown ups we knew we

2:35 would have to do a lot of housework a lot of care taking for little kids but it can sometimes feel thankless right you can sometimes feel like all we get in return is more entitlement hi to everyone watching live say hi in the comments let me know where you are in the world right and let me know if this resonates for you do you sometimes feel like you're running yourself ragged you're bending over backwards and sometimes

2:57 like in the recesses of our heart we have to admit that we would like more appreciation more credit for what we do right it's okay we're not going to get a promotion or a salary or an award or a trophy but it would be nice not to feel so invisible you know parents do about two hours especially mothers do about two hours of emotional labor a day just thinking about and planning for their children scheduling buying the things

3:23 that they need to buy organizing the home uh you know really just considering all the different choices and decisions and dilemmas that we face that's a very heavy burden it is it's a lot that we carry it's a lot that we have to do hi hi in Ontario hi in Dubai oh I love it here from all over the world it's amazing anyway so we are so busy right we're so busy and stressed and overloaded both externally with our

3:48 to-do lists and internally with our irritations and resentment and frustrations and exhaustion and dilemmas and guilt and shame and all of that so because we're so kind of in the trenches in the muck of it right so busy in that that hectic lifestyle we don't get a chance to really think for a moment are we on the right track as a family are we making the right choices are we pointing ourselves are we orienting ourselves

4:18 towards where we want to go do I even know where I want to go what goals do I have for our family what type of relationship do I hope to Foster with my teenagers with my adult children right or just right now in this very moment how do I want to live our day-to-day life you know I personally believe that each day is a precious gift and you know it can easily be wasted right it can be

4:43 wasted in that hectic rush and just getting through getting through getting through the next thing the next thing ticking off the to-do list and it's such a cliche but it's a cliche for a reason it's true that you know the days are long but the years are fast right are quick the days are long but the years go by so quickly and we look back and we think was I present did I enjoy it was I even

5:06 there would I do it differently if I could start over okay so if all of that is feeling a bit overwhelming and heavy to you my solution for you is the dream family boot camp that's why I created it that's why I designed it I want you to take the next three days and all you'll need is half an hour a day okay I've made these videos really short and impactful these trainings are life-changing for real

5:29 um but they are short and precise because I know how busy you are and I don't want to add to your to-do list but I do want to suggest that you take a pause out of the hecticness of life to join me inside of boot camp I'm going to show you I think I could show you on my phone look how cute this is look how beautiful we have this brand new platform and this is the first video dream I

5:55 would love for you to come and join me and you'll get to watch it you just go to highfam.com bootcamp to sign up we have thousands of parents coming in and it's gonna be really an opportunity for you I'm giving you the first few minutes here right to see welcome to ah there you go new setting you everything guys you should definitely come so it's going to be an opportunity for you to just take a breather I gotta

6:22 fix my camera now there we go to take a breather from the day-to-day life to really take stock of where you're going with your family because here's the thing you might be stuck in a family vibe in a family dynamic in a family culture in a home life that makes you want to scream right I know I've certainly been there in the past and frankly that's no way to live you don't need to live that way okay do we all

6:46 have particularly acute periods of survival mode when we've been hit with a terrible diagnosis when we've gone through a loss when we're going through to financial downturn of course but should we be staying there you know just inevitably and without any end no we need to be able to lift our heads up Shake It Off you know have the have the moment of of have the blues or or or Worse right have the dark times but then

7:16 come out and step into the light and strengthen up our backbone stand up straight broaden our shoulders and take on the next chapter why because we're parents okay you and I are parents we have no other choice we have people relying on us their Futures are riding on us and so you show up every single day for your family and this is my opportunity to show up for you to offer you the support the coaching the

7:39 guidance the mentorship the encouragement that I absolutely believe you need and deserve to show up as the leader that you are because you are a leader right we are leaders just by virtue of the fact that we're parents means that we are by definition leading our family and the thing is that we don't get leadership training we don't get the offsides that other leaders get we don't get the manuals we don't get the mentors uh you know if you were a CEO of a

8:08 company you would be getting a lot of Team meetings and board meetings and feedback sessions and all sorts of processes and systems that would be in place to help you track yourself track your progress see what needs to be improved upon right notice where things are falling through the cracks and also to celebrate your successes right well maybe you're up for a promotion maybe you deserve an award we don't have that as parents we're

8:39 running a similarly or far more complex organism right this family of ours is complex and it's extremely high stakes right our organization uh kind of organisms our family is um I mean people's lives are riding on us right we're raising the Next Generation literally we're raising the future we're creating the future with how we raise these children right and if we can hope to raise them in a somewhat stable loving healthy home then we can

9:10 give them some hope at you know not being a burden to Society for example right or being some kind of success in their life but that's only if we managed to create a strong and meaningful and resilient and values-based Leadership and family culture in our homes right just like good CEOs need to be good leaders and create great company cultures good parents also need to create great family cultures but we don't know how to do that but I've made that my life's

9:38 Mission my I am absolutely on a mission to strengthen families and I do believe that that work is acute right now because I am seeing all the ways that families are under attack family life is under attack in many regards not because there's some evil guy with you know a furry cat and a scar and some like James Bond villain saying I'm going to destroy a family not because of that there's no one purposefully trying you know to tear

10:06 down our families or to break apart our relationships um but if you look at things like the rise in Tech addiction right and the effects of social media the rise in anxiety and depression our fears around losing our bond with our children as they grow older the hustle the fact that we're all in a rat race and we just don't have time for family anymore we don't have quality time many of us don't have the Sundays or the Saturday

10:30 mornings or whatever anymore because we've always got the errands and the pinging and the work right there are many different things that are threatening to tear down our families and we see that we see that in the very high divorce rates we see that in the high estrangement rates of families we see that just with our own eyes you can just see it with your own eyes when you're walking down the street when you're at a restaurant when you're on a

10:52 bus and you see how disconnected families are how full of conflict they are how everyone is literally just glued to their phone and not connecting with each other and I squarely count myself amongst the people who struggle with this and so we need to fight back if we want to stand the chance of creating togetherness and that's what I want to offer you here in this dream family boot camp the link is here in the description

11:14 of this video it's just highfam.com bootcamp and by the way wait it's completely free this is a taster of my full year annual membership the studio where I will take you step by step and hold your hand and hold you accountable and really teach you exactly how to create an incredible and long-lasting family culture right to create an unbreakable family and that's what I want for you but whether or not you join me in the studio join me in the boot

11:39 camp because it's free and there I'm really going to have the best chance uh kind of invigorating you right like just shaking things up uh giving you a whole new way of looking at your family life I really believe this could be life-changing I hope that you'll join me in there so let me know if you're coming it's at highfam.com boot camp I'm gonna hop on over in there because I'm so excited to connect with all my new boot

12:03 camp members and I think you're gonna love this platform I mean we all love YouTube it has it's it's it has its perks but what's really lovely about our community in the boot camp is that it's all parents who are just United by this particular mission to strengthen their families and I think when you put yourself in that environment you really set yourself up for Success because you see how inspiring and how amazing it is to be with other parents who care deeply

12:27 who are invested and that type of invested parenting is really the number one predictor of children's success in the future so I very much hope uh for that for you and for your kids so Hi Bethany hi Maham Stella Dalia Cassie David Hannah welcome everybody thank you so much for being here and go and say hello to me inside of the boot camp can't wait to see you there bye