Who is the real problem?

0:00 I'm about to go on a talk here in Cyprus so excited to be talking about conscious parenting and every time I go on a new talk in a new city I'm always aware that parents who come here are coming with an expectation and the expectation parents often have is that I'm going to give them the magic tools to fix their annoying

0:30 disrespectful tantruming children what these parents don't realize and what you as a parent may not realize is that your children are being that with you so you have so much power in that dynamic we parents and like every human only looks outside of ourselves for the cause of our problems that we don't realize that we are huge

1:02 co-creators of the life experience we're having so when we understand that with our children we stop looking at only them as the problem the problem the problem the problem but instead conscious parenting teaches us to look at ourselves in the dynamic with them with them with them with them how are we how are we how are we how are we and every small calibration every small Nuance every small shift in US

1:36 has a domino effect on the them the them the them so don't give up your power in life to anybody because it's never just them you have so much power in how you experience them including your children focus on you what am I doing right now how am I being rigid how am I expecting something unrealistic how am I being needy start asking those questions and

2:06 your Dynamic with every single human including your children will change