Summary
- Boys should see both parents working equally to understand gender equality.
- The speaker shares their experience of working long hours, even during pregnancy, to set an example.
- It's crucial for children to grow up in an environment that naturally promotes respect for women.
- The speaker believes that actions speak louder than words in teaching values.
- The household atmosphere is described as cosmopolitan and open, fostering healthy attitudes towards gender roles.
- The speaker aims for their children to imbibe respect for women through observation rather than direct instruction.
Transcript
0:00 that's so important for the boys to know that women are immensely but I think that was all is also growing up to know that his mother is quite strong and she has long hours you know he saw me working when I was pregnant it's your atmosphere you know getting an example with the things that you do around them rather than you know telling them you are the queen bee in your house with all the boys how important is it to raise
0:23 boys to respect women and how do you do that in the Kapoor Khan household well in the case of Tim and J I think the idea is that they see me go to work even now you know like when temu asks me every time he sees me put on my shoes he's like where are you going and my answer is I'm going to work I'm going to shoot I'm going to an event or I'm going for you know a meeting I'm
0:48 going to work because Amma has to work so above works also and so does Amma so I think he's growing up looking at the fact that in this house it's not just the man who does things we both do things equally we're both bringing food to the table we're both very clear on the fact that we're working as a couple uh we're dependent on each other emotionally and financially we share and if my boys grow up knowing that that
1:18 their mother was a woman has the capability and demands that kind of respect in her home and gets it goes out to work works hard comes home so that you know he they can have a good life I think that's half the battle one because that's so important for the boys to know that women are immense equal a mother is their father's equal yes a mother can be the emotional one the one who gives all the Cardinals and this and
1:45 that we all do that but I think that would is also growing up to know that his mother is quite strong and you know she has long hours like you know he saw me working when I was pregnant um I used to go to shoot the chicken and come back at like seven in the morning wow we did all nights like we did like 17 18 nights in Delhi so he would be waking up and I would be
2:08 coming home and you know we would have like breakfast together and so he's seen his mother do that uh so I'm hoping that because the fact that he learns to respect and understand that women are men's equal is him looking at me I don't want to be that kind of mother to point a finger and say that you know okay this is you have to respect women or you have to do that I I think it
2:33 should be it should be there you should grow up in that atmosphere you should know that that's just whether it's Karishma working um you know my mom has always worked safe whose mom is working till today his sisters she has a daughter so I think it's it's your atmosphere you know setting an example with the things that you do around them rather than you know telling them because I think that the more you kind of point if you can say do this or do
2:58 that kids you know they just don't they don't imbibe that they have to imbibe the atmosphere you know so I think that you know certainly a very Cosmopolitan we are very like open in the house and that's just the way we want both the boys to grow up just looking at us and you know feeling it and just being there for parenting tips celebrity interviews recipes conversations with experts DIYs and lots more subscribe to kids talk
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