My oldest’s world flipped when the baby arrived! Managing that transition and WHAT HELPED?#momof2

0:00 Mama has to say sorry about something. >> Why? >> Yesterday, do you remember when I was very sleepy and tired at 8:00 in the morning and you walked into my door and I was not very kind to you and I was a bit sleepy and upset and I said, "Au, how many times have I told you don't enter the room in the morning between 7 to 8:30?" >> Yeah. >> So, I'll tell you what happens. I feed Nei at 2:00 in the night.

0:24 >> Yeah. >> And then I feed him at 5 or 6 in the morning. >> Okay. >> Okay. And then papa takes him out because I don't really sleep properly at night. 5 to 8 in the morning is where I sleep. And then this missy keeps opening the door one time, two times, three times, four times. And I keep waking up. I keep waking up. And what happens when you don't sleep? Well, you're tired. >> I get angry.

0:46 >> I also get angry. But I want to say sorry. Why do you come in the morning? Tell me. I think you come in the morning cuz you want some connection time with mama. >> I want books also. >> You want to read books with mama in the morning. H. And you've missed mama at night. That's why you keep coming again and again cuz you want to just meet mama. >> Yeah. >> So I should have understood that yesterday, but I didn't.

1:07 >> Yeah. >> So I'm sorry about it. >> It's okay. >> I'm sorry because I know how you must be feeling because I'm with Ni all night. You're sleeping by yourself. Of course you miss your mama. Of course you want to do hugs and cuddles with mama. So I'll be a little more mindful of that. But I want to tell you, you're doing so great as a big sister. You should be really proud of yourself.