Transcript
0:00 So now we're going to play a fun game. Where if you have been in a situation which is like this, then you say bad mom.
0:16 Okay.
0:17 And if you haven't, then it's the good mom.
0:19 Okay?
0:19 So the, all, all the situations are going to be fine.
0:22 Bad, obviously.
0:23 Okay. Have you ever sworn around your child?
0:37 All the time.
0:40 Have you ever genuinely forgotten that you have a kid?
0:45 Yeah, again, never.
0:47 Never. Sadly I've never.
0:54 But can I, can I like put it like that? Because then when I'm traveling.
0:58 How could you just forget you have a child?
1:00 Because when I am like on holiday without them, I want to forget that I'm a mother.
1:04 No, that doesn't, that's different. That's just like you saying philosophically, I want to forget, I want to forget this part about mother. But you don't forget you have children.
1:13 Okay. Okay, so then I'm here. Have you ever let your child watch TV for an entire day? Yeah,
1:22 Not yet. No, not me actually. My child can't watch TV for an entire day. Yeah, she gets bored. Yeah, I may have allowed it. Yeah.
1:33 Have you ever let your kid go without a shower for more than a day?
1:36 More than a day.
1:38 She's clearly the perfectionist.
1:42 Yeah. Have you ever given your kids medicines so that they, they would just like shut up and go to sleep sometimes or through cuff nights or whatever? Me neither.
1:55 No. Yeah.
1:56 No. Right? Yeah.
1:57 No, not his moms. No.
1:59 I'm just kidding.
2:00 But I have to tell you that we, I took a flight to London with her and the doctor said that because my child is quite hyper. I mean she's, she's the non. Hyper. Hyper is a horrible word to use, but she's very act very active. So she's that girl who at airports is, you know, putting her own bag, you know, when she's three, like she's just psycho. So very independent. So I said listen, to calm her down on this flight, I'm going to just.
2:27 Can you give me something? So he was like, sure, give her a shot of vodka. And I'm like. He said not for you. So I'm like, okay. So he's like the best way of doing this is you get drunk cuz otherwise.
2:42 Have you ever seen your kid eat something they're not supposed to, but just looked away because work was priority?
2:50 Totally. All the time.
2:52 Okay.
2:55 Cat food.
2:57 Sorry.
2:59 She can eat everything.
3:00 Have you ever recycled presents?
3:03 What's this got to do with motherhood?
3:05 Recycle kids presents.
3:06 Kids presents. Not the ones that I get then. Okay, so recycling wine doesn't count. How are you?
3:13 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
3:16 You work for a toy company.
3:18 Yeah, but I got a lot of
3:20 when she was born, a lot of shit.
3:25 Is that a bad mom? I think it's a good mom. We're saving the environment and being how
3:29 is that a bad mom?
3:30 Because that's a good mom.
3:32 Okay.
3:33 Have you ever met mom friends over coffee and wondered what am I doing with them? You can't see my answer.
3:41 One thing, we have a common answer to this.
3:43 We're the ones you know this.
3:46 But.
3:47 But I tell you what.
3:48 I. I don't know. I know we are playing a quick fire round game, but I just pour out some wine and then they all become tolerable.
3:59 Mm. I've never met for coffee.
4:03 Have you ever forgotten to send a water bottle to school and said it's okay, she'll need to learn to.
4:11 No. I'm the kind who'd hop in a car and go with a water bottle and make sure it gets delivered to her school before school starts.
4:19 No, she's with me so far.
4:20 So I have. Have you ever wondered if life is greener on the other side?
4:27 What is the other side?
4:28 As in if you're now working, not having a child. No. Were there if you are now working or not? Trying to be this superwoman or trying to juggle it all?
4:37 Never.
4:38 No.
4:39 So what. What am I showing like. No.
4:41 No, you haven't.
4:42 No.
4:42 I am on the greener side of things.
4:44 Okay.
4:45 For sure.
4:47 Yeah, of course. Have you ever wondered what stay at home moms do? We're going to be here in hind.
4:55 It's not like a bad mom or a good mom.
4:57 This is about being a mom.
4:59 Okay.
4:59 Correct.
4:59 We're badass.
5:00 I'm on top of the list of badass moms.
5:04 No, I dare I tell you. And I said this on your thing.
5:07 Yeah.
5:08 I actually think moms have it better because we have some place to escape to. Yeah. It's the world's hardest and toughest job. Dude. Imagine these kids are going to be
5:19 with you all day.
5:20 They definitely. I've never wondered. In fact, I actually think it's the braver decision and the harder one. We run away, right?
5:27 Yeah, that's true. We at least get like a few hours off. Have you ever bought your kids clothes that are bigger for them so that they would fit in it next year?
5:37 Yeah. Boys are bad though.
5:40 Yeah. Have you ever got an email on homework or project and wondered what other teachers doing? If parents have to do this all the time? Yeah. Why why us?
5:50 Why am I doing the old.
5:51 Yeah, I feel like if there's, if you don't, if your child doesn't know the answer, then you don't do the homework.
5:57 Correct.
5:58 Because then how will they spot whether the child is slower or not? Right, Absolutely. So that's not happening.
6:05 So we are. Right. But you've got more, you've got more bad. Yeah.
6:09 So you're the one.
6:10 I really am a Rihanna. Come and save me.
6:15 So then I was just holding up this side. Yeah, yeah.
6:17 You can put this down now.
6:19 Stop saying that.
6:19 You're a bad mom.
6:20 No, I actually don't think I'm a bad mom.
6:23 Yeah, I'm holding this up for her. For more recipes conversation, DIYs for kids. Don't forget to subscribe to our channel and hit the bell icon so you never miss a video from kidstoppress.com.
Summary
- The speakers engage in a game assessing their parenting choices, labeling them as "bad" or "good."
- They share experiences like swearing around children and letting kids watch TV for extended periods.
- Discussions include the pressures of motherhood, such as feeling overwhelmed or forgetting about parenting responsibilities during personal time.
- The group humorously addresses the idea of using medicine to calm hyperactive children.
- They reflect on the judgment of parenting choices, such as recycling gifts and managing school responsibilities.
- The conversation highlights the camaraderie among mothers and the shared struggles they face.
- Ultimately, they conclude that being a mom is a tough but rewarding job, with each mother finding her own way to navigate it.