Kids & Love: What You Need To Teach

0:00 There are lots of reasons to believe in marriage and I do. And so if if I told you that I'm gonna, you know, help my child to become an amazing basketball player by practicing their basketball skills, I don't think you'd find that perverted and weird and controlling of me. If I told you that I'm going to try and get my kid to be a really fast, good, thorough reader and be well read and educate well educated or teach them another language or set them up with any skill in their life somehow in the modern west that would be acceptable.

0:27 But when I say I would like to make sure that my children have the emotional skills and the values to be great partners in the future to be good husbands then that somehow oh that's somehow gross of me right but I do I think that part of having a good life is having a good relationship and part of having good relationship is having them the marriage skills by the way this is something that I teach inside of my course married-youu.com you can check it out I'll link it below but the whole idea there is to learn to be a fantastic wife and and a fantastic husband so that you can reap all the great benefits of having a strong uh you know marriage with real longevity to it. And so yeah, I think it does matter to raise my kids to be attractive partners. I think their life is benefited. They will do better in life. They will be happier, healthier individuals who will live longer, who will make more money, who will have more impact on the world. um who stand to build families and futures and meaningful lives if they are attractive.