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0:00 if you're a parent listen up many parents stay in meshed with their children not because of pure connection or a good relationship because the parent needs to stay in that identity of the mom or the dad and parents are unconscious about this and without realizing they keep their children in meshed to them needy clingy dependent passively waiting for the parents the
0:30 authority figure to give them permission to lead their lives your goal as a parent from the time they are 2 years old onward is to developmentally and appropriately move them toward their Liberation their physical Liberation their emotional Liberation move them toward their autonomy this means that you teach them to rely on their inner voice even when it's so so delicious to
1:00 be the all- knowing parent teach them to follow their own guidance that means giving up your control your influence your power that's okay because they will practice following their own inner voice while they are with you and it's safer to make mistakes but you have to step back and watch this is so hard for parents because this means that they have to give up control and allow their children the trust and the permission to lead their own lives
Summary
- Parents often stay enmeshed with their children out of a need for identity rather than a healthy relationship.
- This dependency can lead to children becoming needy and passive, waiting for parental approval to act.
- From age two onward, parents should focus on fostering their child's autonomy and emotional liberation.
- Teaching children to rely on their inner voice is crucial for their development.
- Parents must be willing to give up control and allow children to make mistakes in a safe environment.
- It can be challenging for parents to step back and trust their children to lead their own lives.
- Encouraging independence helps children practice decision-making while still under parental guidance.