0:00 one of the things the course did was it really cherry-picked the most important things to pay attention to and that really got my attention when i was in the course where i was like whoa i remember saying to my kind of buddy like this is my field and jen's a genius because she is i said i think she might actually be a genius like i want to know what her iq is because the way that you were

0:26 that you gathered from my professional opinion the most important information to support people in understanding why their children's behaviors are really about them and and what we need to know about ourselves in order to engage some kind of change process about that was really tight and by tight i mean nothing extra and everything that needed to be there so so you know i was right when i signed up for the course i was like it doesn't

0:57 matter if i think i know all this i need the structure and the accountability of like read this and do this this week and follow up not just i should know this stuff i'm gonna try harder which i should know this i'm going to try harder works for me it works it had worked relatively well but this stress of this summer was like so high that it didn't i was just so beyond what i could kind of gather myself to show up

1:28 differently for that i really needed the structure and the accountability and the organization and the decisions to be made for me about what the most important things were to be keeping track of [Music]