Why Children NEED Boundaries (What Research Actually Shows)

0:00 permissive parenting is even worse for children than authoritarian parenting let me just say that again parents who are raised with children who offer them high support and low expectations Fair worse with regards to their academic achievements with regards to staying out of jail staying off the street staying off of drugs physical health mental health anxiety depression suicide all of that they score lower than children who

0:32 were raised with parents who offered them high expectations and low support and yet today's trend is slipsliding towards this High support low expectations parenting style and so I'm always a little bit cautious when someone is going to teach me gentle parenting advice when psychologists talk about conscious parenting or peaceful parenting when we hear a lot about this kind of know mindful parenting space I'm I've just I

1:04 just got my ears a little bit pucked up I'm just a little suspicious I just want to see that there are boundaries that they are willing to set standards that they're willing to hold expectations that they are willing to set limits that they are willing to follow through with consequences which often yeah they're basically the same as punishments if you're not you know if you're not too precious about it you have to be aware that those communities teachers and

1:26 books are sometimes going to promote a very permissive Style which is bad for our children