This is Your Biggest Betrayal

0:00 are you a woman who sometimes feels so exhausted and lost and heavy with a sadness that you can't even name because somewhere along the way you stop being the driver of your own life and you became the role the wife the mother the daughter the caregiver and before you even realized it that role swallowed you whole somewhere along the way you forgot that you have choices you have agency that you get to steer your ship wherever

0:21 the hell you want to go has this happen to you this is what happens to us as women we are taught slowly but surely that our voice doesn't matter as much our needs should come second our desires are selfish and a good woman gives herself to others until one day we wake up and we don't even recognize the woman staring back at us we wonder where did that girl go with dreams so wild she couldn't be contained the one who had

0:44 fire in her belly and she's become someone who now waits for permission for approval for the right time from her lover from her partner when did you begin to abandon and betray yourself this betrayal isn't something that happens to you it's something you do to yourself when you refuse to live as you are you see we think betrayal is when someone else chooses someone else over us or cheats on us or lies to us but what if I told you that the biggest Act

1:09 of betrayal is your own self-abandonment every single time you tell your true self to be quiet when you make yourself small to fit someone else's comfort you are cheating on your own soul when will you begin to wake up that you are just as worthy of devotion as everyone else when will you stop waiting for someone out there to come and save you when will you finally say enough no more I must I will speak my truth I will say what I

1:34 want I will ask for what I need I will set my boundaries because this is my life my car my seat my steering wheel and the road ahead mine to choose it's time take that wheel now