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0:00 inside of married you. Do people come with their issues? Of course they do. They come with their issues. But the point is that we are all pro their marriage succeeding. We are pro- their home strengthening and gaining only more momentum and only more harmony and only more conflict resolution and better communication and more passion and more desire and better chemistry. We want to help her to hold his goodness to light, to solve the problems together, to move forward, to heal, to repair, to feel better about him and not worse about him. So, if you take your issues to, you know, I've got a friend who always tells me about the Pelaton moms group and how everybody is there as just diagnosing, right? They're the comment section therapists that I discussed. They are the people who are quickly going to show you the exit route. He's not the guy. He doesn't even love you. He probably hates you. It sounds like he's a narcissist, right?
0:53 they're immediately going to run to those diagnoses. Whereas in Married U, we have very clear, you know, expectations and guidelines as a community that that's not what we're here for. That that's not what we're we're trying to do. We're trying to help you maintain, save, strengthen your marriage, not to edge you on, egg you on, agitate you more, and be like, "Yeah, yeah, he sucks. He's a jerk. You should leave." Right.
Summary
- Couples come with their individual issues, but the goal is to support their marriage.
- The community promotes harmony, conflict resolution, and better communication.
- Emphasis on holding each partner's goodness in light and working through problems together.
- Criticism of external influences (like social media groups) that promote negative narratives about partners.
- The community sets clear expectations to prioritize saving and strengthening marriages.
- Encouragement to move forward positively rather than dwell on negativity.
- The aim is to cultivate passion, desire, and chemistry in relationships.