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0:00 it's you know it could be very split but I'm I'm saying from the man's perspective I want you to ask for help so that I do know what it is that you need is asked for help and I was recently on another podcast and it was funny because there's multiple women on the podcast and and half said absolutely not I don't want to ask for help he should either know what to do or I feel bad asking versus the other was saying
0:31 absolutely I would ask for help and he should be doing what I asked him to do so it's you know it could be very split but I'm I'm saying from the man's perspective I want you to ask for help so that I do know what it is that you need we are not mind reader's in fact usually we're really bad at that and so telling us what to do now that's the problem is that many people feel uncomfortable
0:58 whether it is I just don't feel like one of the women said I don't feel like I have the right to ask you know she was a stay-at-home mom and she said I just don't feel in and that's not the case like you have every right to ask every person has the right to ask for help whether the person gives it to you or not it's totally different but you have the right to ask and you should ask and
1:24 you just have to know how to ask as well that's doesn't mean that's a whole other podcast but [Music]
Summary
- Men often prefer when women ask for help directly rather than expecting them to read minds.
- There is a divide among women regarding the comfort level of asking for help in relationships.
- Some women feel guilty or unworthy of asking for assistance, particularly stay-at-home moms.
- Everyone has the right to ask for help, regardless of their role or situation.
- Effective communication about needs is crucial in relationships.
- The way one asks for help can significantly impact the response received.